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Rant: Most girls are not fat!
Yeh, it's this attention thing. Just ignore it, all girls
do it, well, some don't, most do. It's probably that
she wants to hear you telling her that she's not.
That's the only conclusion I have come to so far.
It's the only logical explanation for it. Why else
would they say it? Oh, Yea, sure most of the worlds
girls think they're fat. NO, of course they don't.
They just want to hear you telling them they're not.
See
if you don't agree with them, you've just become
her victim. Victim can be described looooosley in
this context. She wants to then say "NO I am fat"...
thus leading to a massive two-way-direct-contradiction
where you disagree (Because she's really not) and she
keeps saying she is. So just agree with her, and then
you can move on.
Counter-arguments:
Haven't you ever taken time-out to just stop and maybe
think it's because they REALLY do see them selves
as fat? Or maybe it's because they're insecure, self-conscious...
something like that. You can't just make conclusions
like that.
My response:
Ok, so that's true in the case of some girls, I know
and I accept that. However, for others, they just
like to hear you telling them they're not fat. It's
ridiculous. It can even be seen as a subtle question/approach
into getting their fellow male friends to saying
what they truly think about their bodies. Think about
it, typical scenario:
Girl: I'm fat.
Boy: Fat, are you kidding? You're not fat. In fact,
you're stunning. You have such a nice body.
Girl: Yeh, whatever. Sure you think that!!
Boy: No, im being serious, why would I lie, what would
I have to hide?
This is one, only to familiar conversation
I, and others have had with girls. It's dumb, on their
part. They know they're not fat.
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Anyway, school is going ok now that I'm back. We get
our new 6th form common room/study room/chill out
place, tomorrow. |
